Episode 68

Overcoming Shame, Toxic Masculinity, And Finding Purpose | John D’Agostini

In this episode of The Life Shift Podcast, John D'Agostini shares his journey of overcoming shame, toxic masculinity, and finding purpose. He discusses his experiences coping with family addiction and abuse, societal pressure on gender roles, and struggling with isolation and sleeping in his car. He also talks about overcoming shame and toxic masculinity, seeking help, and providing safety and direction for the lost through a book and mentoring program.

"I wouldn't even admit those things to myself back then. The lack of self-awareness was alarming because I had this blind spot that I know was full of a bunch of junk, and I just absolutely refused to deal with it because that's just not what men do. Or at least that's what I thought at the time.”

John reflects on his unconditional love for his mother despite her demons and how her addiction pushed all the love out of her life. He shares a moment of finality with his mother, where he expressed his love and apologies. John also finds fulfillment in creating a space for others and how he had to go through all his struggles to get to a space where he could help others.

Throughout the episode, John emphasizes the importance of perseverance, determination, and faith in overcoming life's challenges. He also talks about the healing power of touch and the importance of not quitting. The episode is a testament to the human spirit's resilience and the transformative power of self-improvement and personal growth.

John is a 1-on-1 mentor, group mentor, best-selling, award-winning author of "Aimless: A Journey to Constructive Masculinity," performance-based training of thousands of athletes in combination with mentoring practices, curriculum designer, code of conduct expert, served in the Army, DI athlete, and an Ivy League grad. His hobbies include reading, photography, art, and hiking. John is also an award-winning photographer, an avid "foodie," has a bottomless appetite for Italian culture, and is a self-identified "family man."

Visit www.johndagsmentors.com to learn more about John's work as a mentor and sign up for his newsletter. You can also find his book "Aimless: A Journey to Constructive Masculinity" on Amazon.

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1. Overcoming shame

2. Toxic masculinity

3. Constructive masculinity

4. Personal transformation